Question
4:37 AM
Hi,
I found out from my wife 3 months ago that she had comitted adultry with a friend of hers that she had been building a friendship with over the past 6 months or so. All of the lies that she has told me about situations that came up, and I found out long after the fact that she indeed did lie to me. I've been struggling for the past 3 months to work out our marrige, I even suggested a counselor ( which she did not want to go see, she said she didnt think it would help ) . I'm tired of running around "checking" on her when she's at her girl-friend's house, or at work, or is some other place she says she will be. It frustrates me even more when she says she is going somewhere and I find out she is not there.
Or when I can't find her for multiple hours on end. I try not to think that she is meeting this other "guy" somewhere, but I always think she's seeing him behind my back. She tells me she wants to try and work it out, then I find her at his house " just saying hi". Or a cell phone bill with many many text messages sent to his cell number after I asked her to stop talking to him.
Her latest thing is she told me she sent him a letter saying she wanted for him to stop trying to contact her, and that she needed towprk on her marrige. What can i do ? How am I suppose to fix this? Any input is appreciated.
I found out from my wife 3 months ago that she had comitted adultry with a friend of hers that she had been building a friendship with over the past 6 months or so. All of the lies that she has told me about situations that came up, and I found out long after the fact that she indeed did lie to me. I've been struggling for the past 3 months to work out our marrige, I even suggested a counselor ( which she did not want to go see, she said she didnt think it would help ) . I'm tired of running around "checking" on her when she's at her girl-friend's house, or at work, or is some other place she says she will be. It frustrates me even more when she says she is going somewhere and I find out she is not there.
Or when I can't find her for multiple hours on end. I try not to think that she is meeting this other "guy" somewhere, but I always think she's seeing him behind my back. She tells me she wants to try and work it out, then I find her at his house " just saying hi". Or a cell phone bill with many many text messages sent to his cell number after I asked her to stop talking to him.
Her latest thing is she told me she sent him a letter saying she wanted for him to stop trying to contact her, and that she needed towprk on her marrige. What can i do ? How am I suppose to fix this? Any input is appreciated.
